Unsolicited Advice from Rich Logananda

Rich Logan, my favorite yoga teacher, got into a bike accident last weekend.  That kind of thing usually effs a person's brain right up.  I sent him an email to let him know I am glad he is alright, and he replied with the following advice on pain and loving.  What a weirdo.  

"Feeling your pain is different from being your pain.  And Sharing your pain is a way of leaving it behind, but notice if the minute you have unpacked your bags you feel the need to pick them up again.  I think we get stuck in thinking that we are that baggage, but they are really just threads that seem to tie our existence into meaning.  If we could teach ourselves and others to to carry around the lighter baggage of the lovely moments it would be seemingly nicer for everyone, but it just another form of binding illusion.  The question is: do you feel loved?  And the answer is: you need to love.  And you're the one that needs to acknowledge your worth by loving yourself (exclamation point)!  And that needs to happen NOW, period.

Don't feel bad about feeling bad.  Don't feel bad about feeling good.  Don't feel good about feeling bad.  Don't feel good about feeling good.  Just
feel.  And Do.  But don't Do because you feel.  And don't feel because you Do.  And remember that love is a doing and a feeling unbound by the conventions of time.  And compassion is its highest form.  Compassion for you first, and when the cup is full then send some around.  Now you may think, hey what's with all the unsolicited advice, well it's for me as much as for you.  Get well.  And be well.  And then be a well that others can dip into to get well."

-Rich Logan

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  • November 21, 2008 K Faith wrote:
    from google chat:

    neuropunk: wtf, I just read Rich's advice
    wow, he has a pretty nice voice
    when I actually listen to it in class
    he sounds a lot like his instructor, Gabriel
    but the post in general
    I just read it word for word for the first time
    it's not bad

    me:I know
    that's why I posted it

    neuropunk: it's basically a huge zen koan

    me: uh huh

    neuropunk: " Just feel. And Do. But don't Do because you feel. And don't feel because you Do. "
    really?

    me: that is a toughy
    yes, but its hard

    neuropunk: no, I agree. if you take at face value, the sentence completely neutralizes itself
    the implication is that there's some other impetus

    me: well, is there?
    i think the idea is to let action be action, and feeling be feeling, without being subject to the rollercoaster of one creating the other
    i don't know if we can do that
    as humans, but if we become less human, then maybe it makes sense

    neuropunk: acting/feeling without thought

    me: this problem reminds me of a related attachment issue. for example, a lot of people get caught up in blame. if things go bad, its presumably because they did something wrong, and if things go well, they can congratulate themselves having done something right
    then we can sometimes tell ourselves that things going wrong isn't our fault, that it is luck, or god, or destiny - but we are so much less likely to give up the praise when things are good
    we want to think that it was our doing. well which is it?
    I think this is interesting -
    I don't know why we do anything

    neuropunk: that's the philosophical crux of existentialism, yeah?

    me: I reckon
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